“The easiest way to chase a man away is to ask him for money” — Lady advises women

A lady has sparked reactions on social media after sharing her strategy for dealing with men she considers unserious, claiming that asking them for money quickly reveals their true intentions.

In a viral video, she narrated how a man who contacted her on Instagram stopped responding after she asked him to pay for her hair before meeting him.

Lady recounts Instagram conversation

According to her, the man sent her a message asking about her plans for the day. She replied that she wanted to get her hair done.

She said the man then asked if she would visit him afterwards, but she insisted he should first pay for her hair before expecting a meeting.

“The easiest way to chase a man out, I told you guys, is to bill a man. Ask that man for money.”

She added:

“He said, ‘Will you come and see me after?’ I told him, ‘Why would I come and see you when you did not pay for my hair?’ And he did not reply me again till now. Glory be to God.”

The lady maintained that she would not spend her own money to prepare for a meeting with a man who was unwilling to contribute financially.

“Once you are there, talk money… Man no go waste my time, make I use my money do hair, then carry the hair wey you no pay for come see you.”

Watch the video here…

“The easiest way to chase a man out is to bill him. Ask that man for money” – Lady says pic.twitter.com/jhaiAUZ96g

— YabaLeftOnline (@yabaleftonline) July 14, 2026