“Don’t starve a young lecturer and expect him not to look at female students”

A Nigerian lecturer, Uche Ike, has sparked reactions online after claiming that some married lecturers become attracted to female students because they are allegedly denied intimacy by their wives.

Ike shared his opinion in a Facebook post on Tuesday, August 19, 2026, while introducing his wife, whom he said he had been married to for eight years.

The lecturer described his wife as submissive, godly and attractive, adding that they are blessed with four children.

Lecturer Praises His Wife

While sharing a photo of his wife, Ike said he did not see any reason to pursue female students because he was satisfied with his marriage.

“This is my wife and I am not ashamed to post her. We have been married for 8 years now and we are blessed with 4 kids,” he wrote.

He went on to praise his wife’s appearance and personality, saying he has no reason to seek attention elsewhere.

“As a lecturer, I do not think there will be any need to run around little girls in school when I have this my sumptuous baby. Young, fine, submissive, godly and egusi baby. Three times in a day,” he stated.

‘Some Women Hardly Submit’

Ike argued that a man’s marriage to an attractive woman does not automatically prevent infidelity.

“The truth is that, a man can be married to a very fine woman and yet sleep around. This is because some women hardly submit kuntus. Yes. I repeat, that some wives do not submit kuntus as at when required,” he wrote.

He also referenced a friend who he claimed complained about his wife’s approach to intimacy.

“I know of a friend who is always complaining that his wife has a timetable for kuntus submission. What kind of nonsense is that?” he said.

‘Your Husband Meets Young Fine Ladies Every Day’

The lecturer further addressed women married to lecturers, telling them to be mindful of the environment in which their husbands work.

“As a lady married to a lecturer, you should know that your husband meets young fine ladies everyday at school and that should keep you on your toes,” he wrote.

Ike argued that denying a husband intimacy could make him more likely to notice other women.

“It is wrong to leave a young handsome lecturer starving and expect him not to look at female students. Let’s not deceive ourselves here. Not all men are strong to withstand sexual tension. Some fall easily,” he stated.

He added: “Deliver kuntus and he will have no reason to chase after departmental kuntus. Did I make any sense at all?”

His post has since sparked reactions online, with social media users debating his comments about marriage, intimacy and the relationship between lecturers and students.

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