“Giving birth is not the problem” — Lady opens up on why she does not want kids

A lady has sparked conversation online after sharing her personal reason for choosing not to have children, stating that her decision is rooted in concerns about how she might feel towards a child in the future.

The woman made the revelation while responding to questions about why she has not given birth.

Her comments quickly drew attention on social media, where discussions about marriage, parenthood, and personal choice continue to generate debate.

Why she does not want children

According to the lady, the issue is not related to pregnancy or childbirth itself. Instead, she explained that she worries about the emotional impact of becoming a parent when she does not feel comfortable with the idea of conceiving a child through a man.

As she explained her position, she said:

“People keep asking why I haven’t given birth. Giving birth is not the problem. Why I don’t want to have a child is because I don’t want to give birth to a child and end up resenting him or her. Because anytime I look at that child and remember that I was impregnated by a man and conceived through a man, I won’t be happy.”

Mixed reactions online

Her statement triggered widespread reactions from social media users, with many expressing differing opinions on her perspective.

While some commenters praised her honesty and argued that people should not be pressured into parenthood, others questioned her reasoning and shared alternative views about family and relationships.

The discussion comes amid growing conversations about personal autonomy, child-free lifestyles, and the societal expectations often placed on women regarding marriage and motherhood.

As reactions continue to pour in, the lady’s comments have added to the broader debate about whether individuals should have children simply because it is expected of them, or only when they genuinely desire parenthood.

Watch the video below…

“The Reason Why I Don’t Want To Have a Child Is Because I Don’t Want To Give Birth To a Child That I Might End Up Resenting/H@ting. Because Anytime I Look At That Child And Remember That I Was Impregnated By a Man And Conceived Through a Man, I Won’t Be Happy.…” ~ Nigerian Lady… pic.twitter.com/cU4vMgqGIQ

— Somto Okonkwo (@General_Somto) June 19, 2026