“You must put me on monthly salary, hire 8 nannies for our baby” – Lady lists strict conditions for future husband

A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions online after sharing a lengthy list of conditions she expects any man to meet before she accepts any marriage proposal.

According to her, she is not actively searching for a husband, but if a man insists on marrying her, he must be prepared to meet several requirements.

One of her major conditions is receiving a fixed monthly allowance through direct deposit, regardless of how her future husband’s business is performing.

In her words, she said:

“You must put me on monthly salary. I don’t want to hear stories about your business. Every month, I should get my allowance through direct deposit.”

The lady also revealed that she would prefer to have children through a surrogate rather than carry a pregnancy herself. She added that eight nannies would be needed to help care for the child after birth.

She further stated that she does not want to see her husband around the house every morning and expects him to leave money for her before heading out.

“The only days we will be intimate are on special occasions like birthdays and wedding anniversaries. And you must buy me a car and upgrade it every two years,” she added.

Her comments quickly generated mixed reactions online, with some social media users finding the demands humorous, while others described them as unrealistic and excessive.

The video has continued to trend across social media platforms, sparking conversations about modern relationships, marriage expectations, and financial responsibilities between couples.

Watch the video below…

“If I must marry you, these are my conditions: put me on a monthly salary, pay me via direct deposit every month and hire a surrogate to carry our baby…”

—— lady shares her conditions for marriage before saying yes to a man’s proposal. pic.twitter.com/wg12UkLXLN

— sureboy 🪖 (@Asarailu_) June 24, 2026