90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way star Shekinah Garner complained about Sarper Güven not posting about her on his Instagram. Sarper, 43, had been dating Shekinah, 41, for five months before filming. A personal trainer and model for a living, Sarper wore highlighter for their first date and swept Shekinah off her feet. Shekinah from Los Angeles, who's a mom to her 16-year-old daughter Sophie, decided it was time for her to move to Turkey. However, before moving to Istanbul, Shekinah had some concerns about her relationship with Sarper.