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4 Mistakes Often Made By Men Who Want To Become Alpha Males



The thought of being an alpha male is appealing to many young men. I mean, who doesn’t like getting the attention of females, being a thought leader, having a great body, and wielding so much influence?

However, in the midst of trying to achieve all these, many men tend to lose the real essence of being an alpha male. They end up becoming a shadow of their real selves.

If you feel that you’re not getting the best out of yourself, chances are you’re doing the alpha male thing the wrong way.

Here are a few mistakes often made by many wannabe alpha males.


Being an alpha male involves much commitment. You have to build the body of an alpha male, become self-reliant, and learn how to treat ladies right. All these are responsibilities you must perform within the time limit that you’ve set for yourself.

However, you mustn’t push yourself beyond the limits. Remember that becoming an alpha male doesn’t happen out of the blues. So you have to take a step at a time.

If you’re learning how to be self-reliant, you have to be careful because there are some situations where you need to seek help. Learn to be vulnerable at the early stage and then improve on it.


In case you’ve been told that you have to deprive yourself of some things to become an alpha male. Well, it’s true, but you need to careful not to fall into the abyss of self-deprivation.

For example, if you want to shed some body fat and gain your muscles, you have to be intentional with your gym routines. Depriving yourself of food will not give you the perfect abs that dream of.

Also, you need to take supplements such as clenbuterol to help you lose fat and gain more energy instead of spending the entire day in the gym sweating it out.

You need to realize that self-deprivation only worsens the situation. Rather a calculative attempt should be made at enjoying yourself while achieving your goal.

Faking It

Becoming an alpha male is not about being who you’re not. Rather, it has to do with adding value to yourself in order to become more prominent. Therefore, you’d be doing yourself a great disservice if you start faking it.

You have to understand that you’re undergoing a process. Even if you have the picture of what you want to become in your head, don’t start acting like who you’re not.

The bad thing is that the ladies (or anybody) you’ve trying so hard to impress will know it the moment you start playing a false character. So just let things come through naturally.

Undue Influence

Most alpha males have growing influences among their social circles. Essentially, having a positive impact in the lives of the people around you is what makes you influential. But a lot of people get this wrong and they take undue advantage of people.

If you want to grow your influence, here are a few things you should do:

Know your core values
Be great at something
Follow through on your commitments
Fight for justified causes
Provide help to the needy.

However, trying to use undue influence to have your way will defeat the real purpose of being an alpha male.


Agreed, becoming an alpha male could help to bring out the best in you. It could also help you to reach your full potential as a man. But you must be careful not to lose yourself in this struggle.

You can still become an alpha male without losing your core inner values. Remember, you’re not living just to impress other people. So no matter what you do, make sure you’re not making any of these mistakes.

The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé

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